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- Ethan Frome, the main character in the book entitled Ethan Frome, by Edith Wharton, has many
- complex problems going on at the same time. His family has died and he has a wife that is
- continually sick, and the only form of happiness he has is from his wife's cousin Mattie. This,
- however, at times proves to be hard because of Ethan's wifes interference. Nothing seems to be
- going in Ethan's favor. The main theme of the book is failure, and this is shown through marrying
- his wife, not being able to stand up to his wife, and his involvement concerning the "smash up."
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- The first way failure is shown in the book is through the marriage of Ethan and his wife. He
- married her because she had tried to help his mother recover from an illness, and once his mother
- died he could not bear the thought of living in the house alone. His wife was seven years his senior
- and always seemed to have some kind of illness. It seemed all she ever did was complain, and he
- resented this because it stifled his growing soul. Since his wife was continuously ill, and her cousin
- needed a place to stay, they took her in to help around the house. Ethan took an immediate
- propensity to her cousin, Mattie, because she brought a bright light upon his dismal day. He
- seemed to have found someone that cared for him, was always happy and could share his youth,
- unlike his sickly wife who always nagged him. He longed to be with Mattie, however he had
- loyalty to his wife. Being married to the wrong person proved to be Ethan's first failure.
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- Ethan's second failure was not being able to stand up against his wife. His wife claimed that a new
- doctor said that she was extremely sick, and needed more help around the house. She told him
- without any discussion that Mattie had to go. Ethan could not find the words to make her alter her
- decision. His wife also decided that Mattie had to leave the next day itself and Ethan could not do
- anything about it. It was stated in the book that his wife had the upper hand in the house by the
- line "Now she [his wife] had mastered him [Ethan] and he obeyed her." Ethan just could not find
- the right things to say and it was because of his failure of not being able to stand up to his wife, he
- was going to lose the only thing that made him happy.
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- Ethan's last failure was the way he modified his and Mattie's lives regarding the "smash up." He so
- desperately wanted to run away with Mattie, but he could not because his practical sense told him
- it was not feasible to do so. Mattie wanted so desperately to be with Ethan, that she suggested in
- order to stay together forever, was to die together. It was Ethan's job to steer into the tree with
- the sled so that it looked like an accidental death instead of suicide. Instead of running square into
- the tree, he did not hit the tree right and it did not kill either of them. Instead it just injured them ,
- and these injuries stayed with them forever. In this way Ethan had his last failure in not exceeding
- to die with his love, instead he had to live with the guilt from his wife, the injured Mattie, and
- broken dreams.
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- In these three ways, of marrying the wrong person, not being able to stand up to his wife, and
- incidents that come from the smash up, proves that the main theme of the book is failure. It
- seemed that everything Ethan tried to do, worked against his favor. With all the incidents that
- happened it seemed inevitable that his life would always be a string of failure.